Monday, December 26, 2011

Awkward Silence

If not appreciated for its unique ability to bring clarity, awkward silence can be a very uncomfortable thing. I know this all too well because I had a tendency in the past to spout my opinion before listening to the insights, thoughts, and opinions of others. Consequently, I found myself in the place of the fool "who answers before listening." (Proverbs 18:13)

Listening has huge implications for leaders..."Listening is giving attention; talking is taking attention. Asking questions is inviting others to participate; making statements is taking away their opportunity to contribute. If leaders can keep the give vs. take framework in their mind as they go through their everyday activities, they'll have a values-based compass for taking the right actions and making the best long-term decisions." Verne Harnish http://goo.gl/w12c6

As the old saying goes, "God gave you two ears and one mouth for a reason." While using my mouth less has significantly helped, I still have much to learn in the area of intentional listening. Join me this year in embracing awkward silence and find that, "wisdom will enter your heart, and knowledge will be pleasant to your soul. Discretion will protect you, and understanding will guard you." (Proverbs 2:10-11)